“人生一世何必总言感恩,人生无需感恩也不必感恩,朋友帮助你,是因为朋友希望与周围的人有一个融洽的关系,在自己需要的时候,也有人去帮助他。” 在某个论坛看见这句子,印象很深刻。
在职场上打拼的日子,让我看清楚人性丑陋的另一面。刚刚出来社会工作那时,自己社会经验不夠,对人性不设防。眼見身边朋友, 在工作上受到人性丑陋的待遇 ;那刻,实在百感交雜, 明白些社会上的原则。时间久了,慢慢了解在职场上,没有人会真心对别人好。职场就如战场,很多人在里面绞尽脑汁、费尽心智,既要迎合领导意图,又要搞好同事关系;为的是什么?人有時的确拼命要虚伪地掩饰自己的醜陋,但是为了什么,自己非常了解答案。新人总是以为,员工的工作都在老板的视野里,只要努力,就一定能得到应有的奖赏。不幸的是,老板最容易患“近视”,虽然你拼了命,他却视而不见。在信息社会,光会做事已经远远不够,要让老板知道你做了什么,否则,纵使你累得半死,也很难获得加薪、升迁的机会。可是重点一定要找到对的老板,要不然结果还是一样。就像我之前的一位老板娘,她的处事作风,真的让我甘拜下风。她根本不在乎你的业绩有多好,只要你大力擦亮她的鞋,她就会觉得你是最棒的。真是让我无言。
人在职场,生不由己。即使你很不喜欢交流、奉承、合作、避嫌,你也要去学着这些。因為它将决定你的升職加薪之路,決定你的人脉关系。
即使是友情,理论也是一样。人生真的有几个知己?所谓的知己有几个是真心?其实我还是相信这世界上还是有真好人,只是我没那么幸运,怎么也遇不见。
所以说想要生存在这个世界上,有时难免要学会变脸;变脸只为了让自己过得好些。
人性的丑陋就是这样, 放弃良心,挽留自己。
2013年6月4日星期二
人性丑陋
2013年3月17日星期日
这个世界上,最不能勉强的,莫过于感情
2011年5月5日星期四
第52天
时间过得真快,今天已经是第52天了。
2011年3月15日,这是我一辈子都不会忘记的一天。
在这一天,他离我而去,他丢下我一个人自己先走了。
接到电话那一刻,我呆了。我不想接受这个事实,我宁可走的是我。
为什么上天要那么的残忍?为什么一场车祸就要把他从我身边带走?
那一时候,我是多么想跟他一起走,很想丢下一切就这样跟着他去。
每一天哭着睡,留着眼泪驾车,每一天都过着行尸走肉的生活。
心里就像刺着一支针,永远都拔不出来,那种心疼的感觉是没有人能体会。
我知道身边很多朋友都很担心我,担心我会做傻事。
妈和姐也很怕我会跟着他走。
就是因为这样我收起我的伤心,学会不再在任何人面前流泪。
无论心里是多么疼,多么想哭,我都不会让自己在任何人面前流一滴眼泪。
伪装的坚强真的很辛苦,我撑得很累,在现在这一刻,我真的很想放弃了。
时间真的能冲淡一切吗?我真的会好起来吗?
2010年5月7日星期五
男人背后的女人
原来要做一个男人背后的女人是一件不容易的事情。凡事都要学会体谅,学着该怎么去容忍。。。尤其是身边那个男人是个不细心的人 >< 凡事都要默默的忍受 。。。有时我会在想,要找一个真心疼爱自己的男人真的那么难吗?其实深入的想想,要找一个真心疼爱自己的人并不难。。。可是要找一个细心又疼爱自己的人才难呢~或许在这世上真的没有十全十美的一个人吧。。。所以我告诉自己做人还是不要那么贪心,只要他是疼我的就够了。。。每一次我看见或是听见别人在说着他们的幸福故事我心里都会觉得十分的羡慕。。。真的希望有一天童话故事会出现在我的生命里 。。。我相信每个女生都希望童话故事会出现在她们的生命里吧。。。女生都是向往浪漫的,都希望会有王子的出现吧。。现在的我在学着怎么才能做好在一个男人背后默默忍受的女人。。。我知道我一定能办到 ^^ 他虽然没有十全十美,可是他应该也算得上有八分吧 。。。希望有一天他真的能感受到我在为他改变的一切吧 。。。
2010年2月26日星期五
得不到的才是最好的
从小到大我想要得到的东西都是得不到的。。。
记得以前小时候,看见隔壁家的小孩有的玩具,自己很喜欢很想拥有。。。或许因为是单身家庭,所以最后都没告诉妈妈说我想要。。。
到了中学,看见一双很漂亮的鞋子,很想买下,可是因为零用钱不够,所以也煲汤了 。。。
今天我看见一只很可爱的沙皮狗,我真的是超喜欢,可是最后都没买下,因为没地方可以养 ><
刚才把自己锁在房间哭了一场,心里想着那只狗。。。
哭了一场,现在心里舒服很多了 ^^
或许的不到的,就会越想得到,得不到的才是最好的吧 。。。
2010年2月3日星期三
A Brand New Year ♥♥
Will be a new beginning ^^ 2010 ♥♥ it seem like life goes so fast just like blinking your eyes. isn't it? I told myself that i have to life better than last year ^^ Time is precious,time won't wait for you ~ just depends how you spend your precious time. So, don't waste time for unnecessary stuffs. Do something meaningful with your life. I hope a brand new year would bring more and more laughter and happiest to me~ Hope everything goes smooth as well.Thanks my friends who always be there for me and support me when i facing tone of problem,especially my lovely dear. A sincere thanks for u all♥ I believe time will prove everything,how many effort u put on it and how much u will get.I have 3 wish in this year XD hopefully some1 will help me achieve it ... haha ><
♥ me v dear ♥
♥ nothing much i want from you , just show me your's love ♥
i'm glad that im found him ~
feel warm and sweet everytime when he's beside me ^^
nothing is much better than a hug from him ~
he really bring me alot sweet moment ... ♥THX DEAR♥
i know that nothing last forever, but i really hope that our relationship will be long lasting ~
i used to whispering with him although only two of us inside the room.
i used to hanging out with him on everytime when i feel bored.
i used to stick with him although we staying together.
i used to act like a fool and makes him laughed.
i used to against him like a baby.
i used to sms with him everyday when i reach office.
i used to take care of him although i don't even know how to take care of myself.
i used to miss him although he's just right beside me.
Omg ~since from when i love him so deep ...
i think i should pull hand break XD
some1 told me that cant let your bf knw u love him so deep ... (don let them feel proud) haha ~
seriously,i feel extremely lucky to have him, extremely grateful that he's still accompany beside me now ^^
I love this guy from the bottom of my heart, i am always proud that i've him as my boyfriend~ He's just an ordinary person, but he truly melts my heart~ He is the one who completes me,he taught me to be a stronger girl~ With him,i learn to tolerate,learn to accept facts which i don't hope to accept, i learn to be a better girlfriend ... sometime we will have some argue,and i feel my heart breaks whenever we argue just because everytime when we quarrel,he just keep quiet won't do anything or say some sweet word to me.Let me feel that i'm alone,so pity >< But some1 told me that "the couple that fights the most is the one most in love, it shows they care enough to notice what the other one screwed up and care enough to mention it to the person so they can fix it. When they stop arguing it means they stopped caring .. " Is it rite??I know our argue won't spoil our relations,sometime it may improve our relation ^^ right baby?? no one is perfect in this world,we have to learn how to life with others ...I know my life not only revolves around him,i still got alot sister beside me ^^
♥ his hand cover down my hand >< ♥
♥dear,no matter how .. we cant dump each others alone k?
if problem appear between us ... we need to face it
don always just keep silent n keep inside ..
cant and dont ever speak out "break" so easily ~
Deal ? ♥
♥u promise me before u won leave me alone,rite?♥
2009年12月22日星期二
I Should Stop SMOKING
I wanna stop smoking!!!
this word i said few x time d !@#$%^&*
but at the last???i still cant made it ...
y har??i lost control o i totally dunno how to control myself??
this time i really have to stop it jo,cz everytime when i finish smoking i feel tat hard to breath n dizzy @@
i think my lung scorch d lo,gonna die soon ...
don dare to body check up...
dear,i really hope i can made it this time~
cz im waitin my taiwan trip lo ...haha...blek =P
u promise me d lo,so u must proved it ...
la~la~
dear,im sorry bout this few day keep angry to u ><
seriously,lately gt alot stuff mess around me~
especially my career,always kena scold gao gao ....shit...
did u feel tat we keep argue recently??
y har??
i really dunno,thinking that is my fault or your?
what will happen next?
seriously,i'm kinda disappointed on u...
maybe you dunno what i want,dunno actually what i care for it~I think u will just keep feel that why i always showing my temper to u..y always also your fault?
am i right? haha XD
every time after argument,i will try to stand at your angle and think for you..
i knw sometime is my fault,i should nt always shout on u...
sorry to be always fierce on you ...nt i like to do tat,just i don hope i will lost u,know ma???un ma??
Lately i always imaging how if i live without u?hw do i will become if i really break up v u?I started to feel like no more confidence on myself ...So pls prove it if you do really luv me,change it if you really care about me~dun dump me alone,dun leave me,hold me close n stay with me~k??I need you always and i so clear about this .....
I'm not greedy
I jz wan u stay beside me when i need you badly
I jz wan u to show ur care to me
I jz wan u to think for me
I jz wan u to hug me tightly
I jz dun hope u will lie to me
Is that much?Will that hard to make it?
dear,i d used to have u stay beside me,im getting luv u more n more,i dunno hw to describe my feeling,i think u should knw,im serious care bout u...